The Science of Letting Go

Discover why writing down worries and containing them actually works

What is Containment?

A psychological technique used in therapy where you symbolically “contain” difficult thoughts and feelings. By putting worries somewhere—like a jar—you create distance and regain control over your mental state.

How It Works

Writing externalises abstract anxious thoughts into something concrete. The physical act of “dropping” a worry into a container creates a psychological boundary—your worries have a place, and that place isn't everywhere in your mind.

Why It Helps

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Externalisation

Makes abstract fears concrete and manageable

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Control

You decide when to engage with worries

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Boundaries

Worries stay in the jar, not in your head

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Ritual

Simple, repeatable practice brings calm

The Ritual

  1. 1

    Write it down

    Putting words to feelings reduces their power

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    Drop it in

    Create symbolic distance from the anxiety

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    Let it sit

    The jar holds it—you don't have to

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    Release when ready

    Letting go provides psychological closure

MindJar's Approach

  • No streaks or gamification

    Use it when you need it, not when we tell you

  • Complete privacy

    Everything stays on your device. We never see it.

  • Satisfying visuals

    Watch your jar fill—a gentle record of your practice

  • Meaningful release

    Animations that feel like real letting go

Important

MindJar is a self-help tool, not therapy. If you're experiencing persistent anxiety, depression, or crisis, please speak with a healthcare provider. Techniques like this work best alongside professional support.